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What to Do If Your Student Is Deferred for Admission

By Vicki Nelson, courtesy of College Parents of America

Early December can be a stressful time for students applying to college for Early Admission.  They hope to learn about their admission status before the holidays and be able to relax for the second half of their senior year.

Although your Early Action or Early Decision applicant obviously hopes for the best, if he receives a denial he will know that he needs to move on to other choices for the spring regular admissions pool.  However, if your student receives a letter of deferred admission, he enters a state of limbo – his answer is not clear cut and is neither an acceptance nor a rejection.  It is an uncomfortable place to be.

Students who receive deferred admission may be a good match for the college, but the college may want to see how they compare to the regular admission pool of candidates.   It may be important that you help your student understand that this is a delay or a detour, but that she may still be on the road to admission.  A denial letter, on the other hand, would mean that your student cannot be reconsidered with the pool of regular admission candidates.

If your student receives a deferral, he does not need to reapply to the college.  His application will be considered along with the regular pool.  Although, technically, your student does not need to do anything at this point, there are a few things that he may want to consider.

  • Your student should send a letter to the Admissions Office letting them know that he is still interested in the school.  Your student might express some disappointment, but should move quickly to say that he is still excited about being considered for regular admission and looks forward to the possibility of attending the school.  Your student should find out who the regional representative for your area is and send the letter directly to him or her.
  • If there are any updates since your student’s application was submitted, now is a good time to send them.  Your student might consider updated SAT scores, midyear grades, information about a new job or leadership position or honor or awards.  Be careful not to overwhelm the Admissions Office, but do keep them in the loop with new, helpful information.
  • If your student did not previously have an Admissions interview, he might request one now.  An opportunity to personally chat with someone from Admissions might be helpful.
  • Your student should talk to her high school guidance counselor about suggestions for next steps.
  • Now is a good time for your student to think carefully about how important this school is to him.  He can put some effort into contacting the school, sending materials, requesting an interview, visiting campus, or he may decide to move on to other schools where his chances of admission might be better.
  • If your student has not already done so, now is the time to move ahead with other applications.  It is time to consider back-up schools and to complete applications and/or campus visits.
A letter of deferred admission places your student in a difficult position.  He is not in and he is not out.  He may need extra support from you and he may need your help to gain some perspective.  If this school is important, he will want to wait for word in the spring, however, he may also need your help to be realistic in his expectations and to move ahead with alternate plans.


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